I thought about f-locking this, but I'd like to have several opinions on this, since I'm curious as to what everyone's policies are when it comes to friending. I very rarely f-lock anything, and I will never make my journal friends only, because what's the fun in that? But I'm also getting to the point where I'm no longer immediately friending people back when I've seen that I've been friended. The flist is getting rather large (100+ in seven months, wow!!), and I just start to feel guilty when I'm only commenting on a handful of posts a day. I went through today and deleted a few people, mostly those whom I have nothing in common with or no longer post anything, and it's hard, because I don't want to hurt feelings or step on toes.
But issues have come up amongst my closer LJ friends about people basically
insisting that they be friended and then pimped out to that person's other friends, which, for lack of a better word, is lame. You would never force someone to be friends with you in RL, so why demand it in cyberspace?
I guess my question is when do you stop friending? If you've got a humongous flist, when do you get to the point where you say, "thank you, but no thank you"? And do you always let others know when they've been defriended, and is this considered the polite thing to do?
Also, for those of you who could care less, a pointless poll simply for my curiosity:
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