It was a careless comment, but I just got a much-needed apology, so I'm feeling a little better about. It did come from my husband, but I think I know why--his cousin committed suicide seven years ago, and it was very traumatic, and I think he has it in his head that I should be grieving the way HE grieved, and since I'm not, he doesn't know what to do with that. I'm not condoning his actions, not at all, but I think I understand them. It still hurts, though. I'm sorry you know what I'm going through. You're right, I wouldn't wish this on anyone.
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It was a careless comment, but I just got a much-needed apology, so I'm feeling a little better about. It did come from my husband, but I think I know why--his cousin committed suicide seven years ago, and it was very traumatic, and I think he has it in his head that I should be grieving the way HE grieved, and since I'm not, he doesn't know what to do with that. I'm not condoning his actions, not at all, but I think I understand them. It still hurts, though. I'm sorry you know what I'm going through. You're right, I wouldn't wish this on anyone.