Ugh, bb, that SUCKS. >>>:( to that person on your behalf.

As for the "annoying" comment - don't let anyone tell you that you're grieving in a bad way or a wrong way or an "annoying" way (seriously, wtf). Everyone deals with loss differently, and if your grieving is helping you to cope with your loss, then that's what's important. I really hope you're doing okay, I've been thinking of you the last few days. ♥